The real reason Prince Charles and Princess Diana divorced
The marriage of Prince Charles and the late Diana of Wales was no fairy tale. Among allegations of abuse, mutual infidelity, and pressure from the royals, this is why these two found it impossible to live happily ever after.
They weren't in love
Charles and Diana's lack of chemistry seemed especially evident when discussing their engagement in a 1981 interview. They look physically uncomfortable together, but it doesn't end there.Kim Kardashian flashes her tummy
When asked why she elected to marry Charles, Diana says "I had a long time to think about it, because I knew the pressure was on both of us. And, um…it wasn't a difficult decision in the end. It's what I wanted." She quickly corrects herself, saying, "It's what I want."
When asked if they're in love, Diana immediately replies, "Of course!"
Charles' reply, however, would go down in infamy: "Whatever love means," he says. Ouch!Marc Anthony's mother dies
She suffered from postpartum depression
Diana revealed in a Panorama interview in 1995 that she suffered from postpartum depression during her marriage to Prince Charles.
"I was unwell with post-natal depression, which no one ever discusses…you have to read about it afterwards, and that in itself was a bit of a difficult time," she said. "You'd wake up in the morning feeling you didn't want to get out of bed, you felt misunderstood, and just very, very low in yourself." She added, "It gave everybody a wonderful new label—'Diana's unstable and Diana's mentally unbalanced.' And unfortunately that seems to have stuck on and off over the years."Celebs who sued the paparazzi for going too far
Diana revealed that her depression led her to self-mutilate, cutting her arms and legs. "You have so much pain inside yourself that you try and hurt yourself on the outside because you want help, but it's the wrong help you're asking for," she said. "People see it as crying wolf or attention-seeking, and they think because you're in the media all the time you've got enough attention…But I was actually crying out because I wanted to get better in order to go forward and continue my duty and my role as wife, mother, Princess of Wales."
Charles may have triggered her bulimia
Diana confessed to Panorama that she suffered from bulimia throughout her marriage to Prince Charles.Angelina Jolie speaks out against rumors
She said the pressures of her job were factors in her illness. "If I'd been on what I call an awayday, or I'd been up part of the country all day, I'd come home feeling pretty empty, because my engagements at that time would be to do with people dying, people very sick, people's marriage problems, and I'd come home and it would be very difficult to know how to comfort myself having been comforting lots of other people," she said. "So it would be a regular pattern to jump into the fridge."
Work wasn't the only trigger. "It was a symptom of what was going on in my marriage," she said. "I was crying out for help, but giving the wrong signals, and people were using my bulimia as a coat on a hanger: they decided that was the problem…"
Diana's biographer, Andrew Morton, told People, "I think she slimmed before the wedding as a result of nerves, and then the whole thing was triggered during her honeymoon, when her husband put his arms round her and said, 'You are a bit chubby, darling.'"Legendary actress Jeanne Moreau dead at 89
Charles cheated on her
In Diana's 1995 Panorama interview, she was asked if Charles' former flame (and now wife) Camilla Parker-Bowles was a factor in their divorce. Diana replied, "Well, there were three of us in the marriage, so it was a bit crowded."
In a 1994 interview of his own, Charles was asked if he was faithful to Diana. "Yes," he replied (via The New York Times). Then after a slight pause he added, "Until it became irretrievably broken down, us both having tried." Charles admitted that he and Parker-Bowles' affair began in 1986.Pregnant Jessica Alba shows off her baby bump in a bikini
One of the most damaging royal scandals emerged when an illegally obtained phone recording between Charles and Parker-Bowles contained really explicit (and gross) content that we're too polite to print here…but that you can read here.
Diana cheated on him
Charles may have had an affair with Parker-Bowles during the marriage, but Diana reportedly had her own side-pieces, too.Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie may call off divorce
In her 1995 Panorama interview, she admitted to being unfaithful to Charles with their sons' riding instructor, James Hewitt, around 1989. "Yes, I adored him," she said of Hewitt. "Yes, I was in love with him. But I was very let down [by the affair]." Hewitt was even rumored to be Prince Harry's father, but that theory becomes a bit bogus when you realize Hewitt didn't even meet Diana until 1986—two years after the ginger prince was born.
Hewitt wasn't the only rumored lover Diana had during her marriage. She was also alleged to have hooked up with her bodyguard, Barry Mannakee. According to The Independent, Diana reportedly said she was "deeply in love" with Mannakee, who was removed from his post for being "overfamiliar" with the People's Princess. Mannakee was killed in a car accident in 1987.
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Diana was also rumored to have had dalliances with car salesman James Gilbey and art dealer Oliver Hoare during her marriage to Prince Charles.
They had nothing in common
In Sally Bedell Smith's book Prince Charles: The Passions and Paradoxes of an Improbable Life (via People and the Daily Mail), sources claim Charles and those close to him were concerned about the 12-year age gap he shared with Princess Diana. When they wed, he was 32 to her 20.Oprah shares her reaction to Mindy Kaling’s surprise pregnancy
Prince Philip, Charles' father, reportedly wrote him a letter urging him to marry Diana to protect her reputation. Charles' cousin, Pamela Hicks, reportedly read the letter and told Smith (via News 12), "It was measured and sensitive, [but Charles] wasn't in love, he wasn't ready. He saw it as a ghastly threat. Psychologically he assumed his father bullied him, so he read it as a bullying letter."
Insiders told Smith that Charles and Diana didn't have any shared interests or hobbies, or even the same sense of humor.
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Diana was subject to media scrutiny throughout the relationship. She told Panorama in 1995, "The most daunting aspect was the media attention, because my husband and I, we were told when we got engaged that the media would go quietly, and it didn't; and then when we were married they said it would go quietly and it didn't; and then it started to focus very much on me, and I seemed to be on the front of a newspaper every single day, which is an isolating experience, and the higher the media put you, place you, is the bigger the drop. And I was very aware of that," she said.
"We were a newly-married couple, so obviously we had those pressures too, and we had the media, who were completely fascinated by everything we did." She continued, "And it was difficult to share that load, because I was the one who was always pitched out front, whether it was my clothes, what I said, what my hair was doing, everything…when actually what we wanted to be, what we wanted supported was our work, and as a team…"
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For all the previous royals' obsessions with having male heirs, Prince Charles was said to be devastated that his and Diana's second child was a boy.
In audio tapes obtained by biographer Morton that were included in the re-release of Diana: Her True Story—In Her Own Words (via Marie Claire), Diana said, "Charles and I were very, very close to each other the six weeks before Harry was born, the closest we've ever, ever been and ever will be. Then, suddenly, as Harry was born, it just went bang, our marriage. The whole thing went down the drain…He wanted two children and he wanted a girl." Diana added that when he saw Harry, Charles said, "'Oh God, it's a boy, and he's even got red hair.'" If Prince Harry ever develops daddy issues, refer to this story.
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In Prince Charles: The Passions and Paradoxes of an Improbable Life (via the Daily Mail), sources claim Diana physically assaulted Charles while he knelt to say his daily prayers, beating him over the head. She also allegedly banished his friends from their inner circle, made fun of his required royal garb, and even made him get rid of his beloved dog, Harvey.
The queen demanded it
Long live the queen: In December 1995, Queen Elizabeth demanded, in separate letters to Charles and Diana, that the pair divorce, the Los Angeles Times reported.The untold truth about Martha Stewart
"After considering the present situation, the queen wrote to both the prince and princess earlier this week and gave them her view, supported by the Duke of Edinburgh [the queen's husband, Prince Philip], that an early divorce is desirable," a palace statement said. "[Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip] will continue to do all they can to help and support the Prince and Princess of Wales, and most particularly their children, in this difficult period."